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In the vast world of relational exploration, the 'Soft-Swap' (everything but full penetration) is often overlooked, but community veterans on Reddit swear by it as the ultimate introductory protocol.
By removing the expectation of 'going all the way', couples report a massive decrease in performance anxiety. This allows the focus to remain on the sensory experience and the social connection. It's about 'playing' together, not 'performing' for others.
Redditors suggest that mastering soft-swap builds a unique kind of trust. It proves that you can be in a highly charged environment and still prioritize each other's boundaries. It's the perfect training ground for 'Boutique Discretion'.
Many successful throuples and swinger pairs started with soft-swap for months before moving further. This 'slow burn' approach ensures that your relational foundation is reinforced at every step, preventing the 'lifestyle burnout' often seen in those who rush.