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Entering a foursome dynamic is one of the most exhilarating milestones in boutique matching. It requires moving from a duo-centric mindset to a collective harmony where four individuals' comfort levels must be perfectly aligned.
For most first-timers, staying in the same room is the safest way to ensure everyone feels included and observed. It maintains the shared experience and allows for instant emotional check-ins.
Consent is not a one-time 'yes' at the door; it is a continuous dialogue. Use non-verbal cues and verbal affirmations throughout. If one person slows down, the entire group should adapt to that pace.
The 'After-Action Review' is where the real growth happens. Dedicate time solely to your partner after the session to reconnect, validate each other, and discuss what felt best.